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I invited a stray cat by feeding her She is quiet big maybe 1 year old Her one eye is damaged I think she had a fight with another male cat He has not been here since i made him run away She keeps on rubbing her body with my legs when i am standing I hope its normal and she is trying to leave a scent but when i sit on a chair near her she tries to pounce on me Maybe she wants me to love her but her nails scratch me a lot Is this normal She has already bit me once
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Published on December 9th, 2016
It is normal that she is rubbing her body on your legs, she is showing you affection. If she is stray cat, she likely didn't learn appropriate socialization, and she would think she is showing you love by trying to pounce on you but not realizing she is doing it wrong. Cats can bite too as signs of affection, but again she won't realize if what she is doing is too hard or not because she hasn't been socialized. I would starting showing her what is appropriate behavior. Praise her, pet her, and give her treats when she rubs against you, but if she pounces, either ignore her or move away. Refuse to give her attention until she gives affection in a safe way, then reward her for the appropriate behavior. She will learn from you what is a good way to give love, and what behaviors are not acceptable. Do the same when she bites you. I would also take her to the vet if you haven't already to have her eye checked out.
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This is not uncommon behavior in a cat which was not handled frequently by humans as a kitten and in most cases will settle down. It may help to place a blanket or cushion over your lap so the claws do not scratch you and she can feel more secure when she jumps up. watch her clues carefully and cease all handling if her ears go back or hair tail starts flicking as these are signs she is worried by her situation and is preparing to lash out
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