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How to keep my first cat as the alpha when adding a second cat?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | American Shorthair | Female | spayed | 10 lbs

Six months ago I adopted a cat from my local shelter. She is a handful at 2 years, bored and moody, so I thought I would get a second female cat for companionship (she was raised with a housemate according to the shelter). She is a pampered princess who expects me to follow her around the house. I want to make sure she remains the alpha-cat in the home as I think it would be unfair for her to lose her position. How can I assure this?

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Answered By Dr. Elizabeth

Veterinarian

Published on January 10th, 2020

You can't assure this. The alpha cat position is based upon personality and size/physical condition. If the new cat is more alpha and is big/strong enough to assert herself she will become the alpha. Look for a companion who already lives in a cat colony. Look for any easy going cat, not one that bullies the other cats. Go to the shelter for several days in a row and quietly observe. Then decide which cat may be best. Look for a cat similar in age and size. Also speak with any shelter staff, they may know the cats well. I hope this helps.

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