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My cat is quiet and not social after spay. Is she in pain? What can I do?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Mixed Breed | Female | spayed | 6 lbs

I just had my cat spayed, she is 2 years old and it's been about 4 days since her surgery. Her incision looks fine (it's not hot to the touch or bleeding) but she's not being social and I'm afraid she might be in pain but I have no more pain medicine to give her. I'm not sure what I can do for her. Please can you tell me what do can do to make her more comfortable I've tried everything. I'm very worried.

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Answered By Dr. Melanie, BVSc MS

Veterinarian

Published on April 28th, 2018

I'm glad Jay's incision looks good! A spay is an abdominal surgery, and cats can be quieter for a bit after the surgery. This is normal, and it's actually better that she is quiet because you want her to rest as much as possible. Now if you are afraid she is in pain, give your vet a call. They can prescribe some more pain medications for her if needed. Please do not give her any human pain medications, as many are toxic to cats and are fatal if given. Make sure she is eating and drinking water, and continue to keep an eye on her and her incision. If she becomes very lethargic and/or stops eating and drinking, this is not normal and you will need to take her into a vet right way. Best of luck, I hope this helps!

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