My cat is anxious after breakup. Should I take him back to my ex?

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Keep 3 bonded cats together after a breakup or keep 2 with ex and then keep the one very much bonded to me for myself. Cat bonded to me allegedly whined for 30 minutes in a place we frequently cuddled when I left and got distant, but now that I brought him with me, he has been uncharacteristically vocal and agitated. He has taken 2 little breaks from whining to just cuddle with me and purr, but then he goes right back to losing it. He’s usually so calm. Do I take him back?

Dr. Melanie, BVSc MS · Accepted Answer

Thank you for contacting Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach with your question. Breaking up is really hard to do, and it can be hard on pets. No, I wouldn't take him back, he's bonded to you. It just takes time to adjust to a new home, and if you want, you can get him a companion for your home. Just give him time. When my ex and I broke up, he didn't take the dog who was super bonded to him. She sat by the front door for a long time waiting for him to come home, but she got over it, and was happy and loving life with me. I just gave her extra love and attention during that transition time. It will be ok, trust me. I hope this helps!

My cat is anxious after breakup. Should I take him back to my ex?

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