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My dog is grieving owner's death: not eating, crying. Help!

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Coonhound - blue tick | Female | spayed | 4 years and 4 months old | 59 lbs

My dad and I used to live together with Sadie, well last Friday my dad died of cancer, Sadie has not really been eating, a bowl maybe two a day, doesn’t play and just sits outside his door and cries. What can I do to get her to understand? It breaks my heart how sad she is

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Answered By Daniel Fonza, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on April 13th, 2018

Hi there and thank you for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach to address your concern. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I am sure it is very difficult to be going through this. Dogs are emotional and can become distressed / sad when a loved one passes away. Unfortunately, it just takes time. There are some things you can try to help ease the stress for Sadie. I would recommend the below products and see if these help. I would also take her out more for walks and socialize her and consider taking her to the dog park as well to interact with other dogs. I hope this helps. Please let me know if you have any other questions or concerns and I would be more than happy to help you further. 1. Adaptil collar 2. NaturVet Quiet Moments Calm Chews with Melatonin 3. Plenty of toys to play with

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