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Dog neglected by owner, but attached. Should I take over care?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Mixed Breed Medium (23 - 60lb) | Female | spayed | 7 years and 7 months old | 26 lbs

My son is a 24 year old slacker. His dog absolutely loves him and waits for him to come home from work, not wanting to spend time w/me or my other son. Most times when my son gets home, he gives his dog 5 minutes and then goes right to video games and/or smoking pot. I would say I take 90% financial responsibility for Daisy.. I want to kick my son out BUT keep Daisy with me since I do not trust him to properly care for her. Part of my concern is Daisy's emotional well being-she adores him.

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Answered By C. Rathjens, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on April 6th, 2018

As I'm reading your question again, I think maybe you're asking if Daisy is better off with you or with you son. That's hard to say. She may adore him, but be much happier and healthier with you when she's properly cared for. You can always have her go back to your son if she seems miserable when he's gone. I would put her needs for proper care first.

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    Answered By C. Rathjens, DVM

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    I'm not sure what your question is here. I'm assuming your asking about the legality of kicking your son out and keeping Daisy. In most states, dogs are considered property, so I would recommend consulting with a lawyer to see what the rules are in your state.

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