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My cat is acting aggressive. What can I do to calm him down?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Persian | Male | unneutered | 11 months and 7 days old | 3 lbs

my cat is so much aggressive..what can i do for the normal

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Answered By Dr. Elizabeth

Veterinarian

Published on October 22nd, 2019

Aggression is complicated and I recommend to have him neutered and to work with a behaviorist. If this appear more play related, sometimes this behavior can be related to boredom, anxiety or a desire to play roughly. There are a few things you can do which may help. Try enriching his environment. Here is a great article about cat's instinctual needs: https://www.petcoach.co/article/why-every-cat-needs-a-place-to-climb/ Use a Feliway diffuser, set aside 30 minutes a day for vigorous play and/or switch the food to Royal Canin Calm. During the play time, if he seems like he wants to play rough, try to encourage him to wrestle with a stuffed animal. You may also try feeding him from a food puzzle and/or hiding food around the house for him to find. Most cats response best to combination therapy. The veterinarian can also prescribe medications which can help with behavior. You may also try clicker training him for positive behavior. Here is a link about training cats: https://www.petcoach.co/article/can-i-train-my-cat/ I hope this helps and please feel free to post any additional questions.

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    Answered By Dr. Elizabeth

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    Published on June 24th, 2019

    Cats can exhibit some very confusing behaviors sometimes. From a behavioral stand point, this may be a form of rough play. Certainly some cats play rougher than what human skin can handle. He's young so he still has a very high energy level. Here are a few reasons cats will react aggressively. If you can identify a 'trigger' or lack there of a, it may help you to get a better understanding of the behavior: https://www.petcoach.co/article/5-tips-to-handle-an-aggressive-cat/ If this is rough play, you may try changing a few things in the environment which may help such as using a Feliway diffuser, setting aside 30 minutes a day for vigorous play for Bean or switching his food to Royal Canin Calm. Trying to meet his instinctual needs and keeping him entertained may also help: https://www.petcoach.co/article/why-every-cat-needs-a-place-to-climb/ https://www.petcoach.co/article/4-ways-to-play-with-your-cat/ If he insists on rough play, get a large stuffed animal and see if he will use this as a substitute to attack. An interactive cat toy may also help. The veterinarian can also prescribe medications which can help with behavior if needed. You noted that he pants sometimes. Cats can pant with exertion but if you are noticing the behavior without an obvious cause, have him examined by the veterinarian to check his heart for any signs of hypertrophic cardiomyopathy. https://www.petcoach.co/article/feline-hypertrophic-cardiomyopathy/ I hope this helps and please feel free to post any additional questions.

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    Answered By Dr. Elizabeth

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    Published on June 10th, 2019

    It's hard to know why Artemis is acting this way. It's possible he is playing rough, that he is experiencing stress or that he is taking out frustration on you. There are cat behaviorists who can be immensely beneficial and this would likely give you the best results the fastest. I recommend to work with a feline behaviorist but if you can't, there are some things you can do at home which may help. Here is a helpful article: https://www.petcoach.co/article/5-tips-to-handle-an-aggressive-cat/ Other ideas include meeting his instinctual needs: https://www.petcoach.co/article/why-every-cat-needs-a-place-to-climb/ Making him physically tired may also help. Set aside 30 minutes a day for vigorous play. Switch the food to Royal Canin Calm which may help may help. Clean all window sills and doorways in case he can smell a cat outside spraying. Use a food puzzle. Lastly, the veterinarian can also prescribe medications which can help. I hope this helps and please feel free to post any additional questions.

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