My dog won't stop crying from separation anxiety. What can I do?
Updated On September 23rd, 2025
Pet's info: Dog | Mixed Breed Large (61lb +) | Male | unneutered | 2 years and 7 months old | 75 lbs
My sister left for college and had to leave her dog behind. He has separation anxiety. I've tried everything to calm him down and he wont at all. I give him treats things with her smell on it and we face time so he can see and hear her. He wont stop crying either unless i hold him. I start school again on Thursday and won't be able to hold him all the time. What else can i do?
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Published on August 20th, 2019
You should probably have Rusty examined by a vet if his separation anxiety is this bad. The vet can make specific recommendations on behavioral training at home, supplements, or medications that will help make Rusty more comfortable while you are away. You can also look at doggie daycare or petsitting options.
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Published on May 17th, 2018
Poor Miley! Constantly crying when left alone is a very common sign of separation anxiety. It sounds like you're already doing most of the "easy" things we normally suggest, like using calming aids (Thundershirt and calming treats), and leaving her with some tasty things to eat to help keep her busy while you're gone. Since you haven't seen much improvement so far with these measures, I would strongly suggest talking to your veterinarian about prescription anti-anxiety medication for her. Most dogs with significant separation anxiety issues will need prescription meds, at least for a while, in order to make progress. Medication can sometimes be decreased or stopped later on, once the dog has learned to be more comfortable being by herself. If your regular veterinarian isn't well-versed in behavior issues, you could consider seeing a veterinary behaviorist instead. You can search for one in your area here, if needed: www.dacvb.org
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Published on July 4th, 2017
If she has been seen by the vet to rule out any medical reason for her crying, then the solution is fairly simple. You need to let her cry, without reasuring her or talking to her. Responding to the crying will actually make the situation worse! She will learn that, when she cries, you will give her what she wants (attention). You will be on your way to having one very spoiled dog. Once you are sure her needs are met (food, water, bathroom breaks), let her cry herself out. It may take her two or three days, but the crying will subside. Spend plenty of quality time with her when she is not crying. A Kong toy filled with peanut butter (not made with xylitol!) may distract her for a period of time, but be sure to give it to her before she starts to cry, as you do not want to reward the bad behavior in any way. If you need additional help with this, you can click on the prompt to initiate a consult.
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Published on February 9th, 2018
I am so sorry that you are experiencing these issues with Elle. It sounds like she may be experiencing some separation anxiety. this is relatively common issue with puppies her age. I would try the following tactics; Increased exercise -helps with bonding and mental health Interactive toys -treat releasing Puzzle feeders White noise machine while out Interactive games- fetch and hide and go seek Thunder coat You may consider adopting another pet into the home There are training techniques to try as well where you leave the home for increasing amounts of time. Each time you return you reinforce that you will come back and everything is fine. I hope this is helpful and Elle feels better soon! please post an update in a week to see how Elle is progressing so I can help you both further!
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