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Why is my female Chihuahua still scared of me, a male owner?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Chihuahua | Female | 6 lbs

I have a female Chihuahua i bought from someone and it's been seven months since I had her but she still seems afraid of me, but she's different when it comes to women am i doing anything wrong?

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Answered By Dr. Elizabeth

Veterinarian

Published on April 27th, 2019

Trust can take a long time to build. Some dogs who may have had fearful experiences will remember these and it make take a while to over come. Men do tend to be more intimidating due to a larger stature and deeper voice . It's also important to not tower over Sandy. Squat down to get on her level. Try to find a toy she really likes and have play sessions with her. Also make sure you are the one who cares for her (feeding, walks, playing). In general, this will form a positive association and can help to bond her with you. Also, try not to force her into hanging out with you. Make sure to heavily reward any behavior that appears to be what you want (like approaching you on her own). Make sure to use a higher pitched voice for positive association until she is comfortable. Be patient and positive.

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