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My new dog is scared and won't let me touch him. How to gain trust?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Siberian Husky | Male | unneutered | 30 lbs

My Dog is so fearfull he doesn’t allow me to touch him I adopted him 3 weeks ago he have separation anxiety and he doesn’t trust human at all what should i do to gain trust and get him to play he’s soo sad dog ?

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Answered By Eryn Taormina, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on February 23rd, 2019

Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear about Smokey's troubles. It can be difficult when we adopt pets from shelters, because we don't know their history, or what happened to them before they came home with us. It is important to be patient and work with Smokey daily. A great idea would be to call his veterinarian, and get some recommendations for a veterinary behaviorist in the area. Veterinary behaviorists are veterinary doctors who are board certified in behavior. They could evaluate Smokey, and give you the best advice as to how to work with him. If a veterinary behaviorist isn't available, your veterinarian may know of some good trainers in the area, who are skilled in working with fearful dogs. In general, I would not push Smokey, let him come to you. Let him get acclimated to his new home. 3 weeks isn't very long in a dog's mind. He still needs to settle in. As long as he isn't showing any signs of aggression, you can try some natural calming supplements like zylkene or canine compsure. They can help him relax and get to feeling more comfortable more quickly. If he is showing any signs of aggression, like biting, nipping, or growling when you get close to his personal space, dog bowl, or toys, then I would avoid the supplements, and call your veterinarian right away. Giving calming agents can sometimes make aggression worse. I hope you find this answer helpful! Best of luck!

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