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My cat doesn't like being held. How can I get them to enjoy it?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

how to make may cat to be held on hands

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Answered By Dr. Elizabeth

Veterinarian

Published on February 20th, 2019

Cats are individuals and just like people, they all have different preferences. Not all cats like to held. If you want to encourage your cat to like the experience, remember the always be slow and patient. Don’t force the behavior upon your cat or she will have a negative experience and then will rebel against it. Start by encouraging her to sit quietly in your lap. Once she is comfortable doing this and is content, try lightly putting your arms around her and apply a little pressure. Don’t try lifting her yet. Practice this behavior. If/once she is comfortable and accepting of the behavior. You may try lifting up her front half and holding her lightly again you. Once again, you will need to practice this behavior. Then you can progress to picking up her whole body and holding it against you. Then you can progress to standing. Finally progress to walking. Be slow and patient and don’t make her uncomfortable. Word of warning, some cats will scratch or bite if they become uncomfortable so use your best judgement. I hope this is helpful and please feel free to post any additional questions.

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