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How can I help my shy, anxious cat feel comfortable with new people?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Domestic Shorthair | Female | unspayed | 4 months and 6 days old

Is it safe to give artemis small meals around 4 times a day with snacks in between? She doesn't seem to be the type to eat much. Secondly, she is very shy and anxious, how can I get my cat to relax around other people?

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Answered By Linda G, MS, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on January 7th, 2019

Hello. Most people find it easier to just leave dry food out, especially for growing kittens, but if you wish to train Artemis to eat at specific times, then 4 times a day would be fine. To bolster her confidence around people, make sure everyone who comes to your home enters the house quietly. Everyone should try to offer her a very tasty treat, not a lot, but enough that she associates new people with a special treat. Have people pet her gently, & if she does not want to be held, don't chase her. Over time she will become more self-assured. Thanks for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach.

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