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My dog is destructive and stubborn. How do I get him to listen?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Mixed Breed Large (61lb +) | Male | unneutered | 1 year and 8 months old | 85 lbs

I have a very smart, sweet and loving dog but He's destructive , he takes things and runs off with them and when I yell at him he stares right at me and continues doing whatever bad things he's doing. We have tried positive reinforcement but he's very stubborn, so sometimes we give him a firm spank on the bum and will scold him but even that doesn't work. He is such a good even tempered dog despite these issues. I don't know what else to do with him

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Answered By Makenzie Kurth, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on December 11th, 2018

Thanks for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach. I have two comments for you. One is, he could be doing this for attention or because he is not getting enough exercise. Perhaps try extra time with practicing tricks or playing. An extra walk or run can also help keep boredom and pent up energy under control. 90% of the time, this is the issue. If you feel you are already doing a great job in these departments, consider crate training him so that he has “quiet time” while you’re working etc. The other comment is redirection. When he runs off with your shoe (or whatever) tell him no firmly and immediately offer something he CAN chew/play with. Then praise him and maybe play with that toy with him for a minute or two. If those are not working, it’s timw to involve a trainer. Best wishes to you and Stitch!

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