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Why did my kitten suddenly prefer my mom over me for affection?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Russian Blue | Female | unspayed | 2 months and 28 days old

My kitten was following me around the house, falling asleep in my lap everyday, coming to sleep in my bed by herself... and I was happy, as I thought "oh, she loves/likes me". But all of a sudden, she started doing all of these things with my mum. She won't sleep in my lap anymore, or do these things she used to do, and now does them with my mum. (I am the one who feeds her and plays with her, by the way). Is this normal in cats? I'm kind of sad, as I really wanted her to be like that w/ me.

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Answered By Laura Johnson VMD

Veterinarian

Published on September 4th, 2018

Hi, thanks for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach! Aww! I understand your feelings but Halley is still very young. Animals can be fickle especially cats. I would continue spending time with her and offer treats. Call her to sit on your lap. Also watch closely to signs she’s getting annoyed: slight flicking of ears, tail wagging that would indicate she doesn’t like how she is being pet. It is just as possible she’ll go back to showing you more attention. I wish you the best!

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