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My bird bites me and prefers my mom. How do I get her to like me?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Bird | Unknown - Bird | Female

My bird hates me she always bites me when I try to carry her I feed her and give her water she just Dosent care but she loves my mom she always on her finger and always carries the bird it dosent like me I’ve had it for more and 6 years

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Answered By Angel Alvarado, LVT

Licensed Veterinary Technician

Published on September 3rd, 2018

It may be a simple preference. Some pets, birds included, have their favorites. You can try to gain her trust gradually, but be prepared for rejection. Start by simply sitting by the cage for ever increasing periods of time. Progress to placing you hand in the cage for ever increasing periods of time. Make no attempt to touch or hold her. End each session with a small reward or treat. Be patient and be consistent. If it makes you feel better, I have a parrot close to 30 years old that I have cared for since she was a chick. She will bite me any chance she gets. It's not just you.

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