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Pet's info: Dog | Mixed Breed Large (61lb +) | Female | unspayed | 1 year and 7 months old | 75 lbs
If a dog tries to bite during discipline and when u take the aggressive discipline, how do you discipline them ? I feel like me being nice won't make him stop doing those wrong things .. my dog thinks he is alpha and stubborn . I need him to completely stop the bad stuff not punish then go and do it the next day.. help
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Published on June 28th, 2018
Hi there. This situation is precisely why we do not recommend any kind of harsh discipline - this is a common trigger for aggression in many dogs, as it makes them feel threatened and they may become aggressive to try and defend themselves. Dogs do not think they are "alpha" - this is a myth, and does not accurately describe the underlying causes of most problem behavior. I would recommend discontinuing this type of punishment immediately, as it may very well cause you to be bitten and will not help resolve the behavior issues you're having. It's likely that your dog simply needs to be taught in a positive way what you DO want him to do, rather than being punished for doing things you don't like. You can find a good reward-based trainer in your area here to help guide you: www.ccpdt.org A great, practical book on dog training and behavior in general is "How To Behave So Your Dog Behaves", by Dr. Sophia Yin. I would highly recommend it if you're looking to learn more about how to train your dog effectively. Jean Donaldson's "The Culture Clash" is also excellent. :) For more information on dominance theory and why this is not a useful way to view dog behavior, see the position statement on this issue from the Association of Pet Dog Trainers (APDT): https://ahimsadogtraining.com/dominance-training-position-statement-by-apdt/
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