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My dog won't cuddle. How can I strengthen our bond and show love?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Mixed Breed Small (up to 22lb) | Female | unspayed | 8 years and 11 months old | 8 lbs

I am trying to figure out whether my dog loves me. I have had my dog gabby for 9 years. I love her with all my heart and give her alot of attention, but in the past year I am thinking she does not love me anymore, She gives me full eye contact and comes to me when I call her name, but she does not like to cuddle with me as she will leave my bed after 10 minutes, She is a small dog so I dont take her on walks often. But I want her to know I love her so shell love me, what can I do?

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Answered By Makenzie Kurth, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on February 6th, 2018

Thanks for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach! It is obvious how much you love Gabby and I suspect she loves you very much too! Most dogs are very bonded to their owners-especially dogs who have been cared for by the same person for years. There may be a reason that she does not want to stay with you in bed. Where does she go? Does she go straight to tile or wood because the bed is just too warm (my own dog started doing this recently). Do you toss and turn and it bothers Gabby? Does a fan blow on her? Is there a new candle or scent in your room? All these things may be reasons Gabby decides to lay down elsewhere. As with most dogs, you can strengthen your bond by petting and sitting together (try laying with her wherever she likes to lay for a few minutes). Playing with toys and working on training is also excellent for showing her you love her. You are doing a great job! Hope this helps and best of luck to you and Gabby!

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