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Cat hates me, loves dad. How to fix cat behavior at home without meds?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Persian | Female | spayed | 13 lbs

My cat is fine with my dad yet he absolutely hates me. Can I fix this at home without meds. (hates the vet too) (is fine there until they come out.)

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Answered By Dr. Strydom, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on January 28th, 2018

I suggest you try some Feliway products. You can even use the spray on your clothes prior to handling or getting near your cat. You can also try some calming treats. https://www.feliway.com/us#redirected https://www.petco.com/shop/en/petcostore/product/comfort-zone-diffuser-with-feliway-for-cats https://www.petco.com/shop/en/petcostore/product/comfort-zone-spray-with-feliway-for-cats https://www.petco.com/shop/en/petcostore/product/vetri-science-composure-feline-bite-sized-chews Just keep in mind you may never get your cat to "like" you. You cannot force the issue. Hope this helps. Best wishes!

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