How to build trust with scared budgies so they eat from your hand?
Updated On September 23rd, 2025
How do I build trust with my budgies they are too much afraid of me when I get closer to their cage. They also refuse to eat anything from me holding the food bowl or in my palm. What should I do?
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Published on November 2nd, 2017
It may take time and patience. You can begin by simply sitting next to the cage for short periods of time initially and increasing it as they acclimate. They will flutter about and move to the far side of the cage at first. Eventually, they will settle down and accept your presence. Move slowly and speak softly around the cage. Once they have completely acclimated, you can progress to placing your hand in the cage. Make no attempt to touch or hold them. Again, they will flutter, panic and move to the far side of the cage. Leave your hand inside the cage for ever increasing periods of time. Use small treats as rewards after each session. Eventually, they will become curious and may hop onto your hand if you have treats. You can teach the 'step up' command by extending a finger and gently pressing it against the chest while saying "Perch" or "Step up". From this point, you can work with them to teach additional tricks or whistles.
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Published on October 28th, 2019
Most small birds like budgies need to be tamed and it sounds like this is the case for your birds. This process requires time and patience. I recommend to start reading about budgies and different techniques to help tame them. Start with books specific about Budgies and then move into books about birds in general. I hope this helps and please feel free to post any additional questions.
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Published on June 19th, 2017
I would recommend taking it slowly. keep them in a room you use often so they can see you. Also, birds can be very food motivated. Try using a special treat only you give them. A lot of times this really helps
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Published on December 23rd, 2018
Taming can take time and patience, and in some cases, some birds are never completely tame, especially if they are more closely bonded with another bird in their cage/environment instead of you. I would just keep trying to spend time with both birds, offering treats and interacting with them when you can, and giving them a chance to interact back with you on their own terms. If they don't seem interested in cuddling, offering toys or fun things to play with that you can also watch and enjoy is a way to spend time together as well.
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