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My older cats won't accept the new cat. How can I stop the fighting?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Oriental | Female | spayed | 2 years old | 13 lbs

Hi, I asked a question a couple of weeks ago and was very pleased. I rescued Nala August 22nd this year, she was 2 on September 9th. I have 2 other rescues, an Oriental Tortie 5 & a Seal Point Siamese 9. I've had them 3yrs. My problem is, my older cats won't accept Nala & attacks her on a regular basis. Nala's has a beautiful nature, so rarely fights back. I've tried shouting, hitting an object with a letter, throwing a cushion, just about everything but to no avail. I don't believe in smacking

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Answered By Rodrigo Roca, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on October 8th, 2017

The next step is to rotate rooms daily for at least 2-3 days. This allows the new cat explore the rest of the house while the resident cat spends some time in the new cat's room. This will give your resident cats a chance to smell the new cat and rub their own scent on objects. The cats should be fed in each area with wet food twice daily, and it is also good to play with the cats in each area at least twice daily. The practice of setting up a schedule of feeding treats of wet food, as well as a playtime routine, minimizes anxiety and makes the cats feel more secure. Keep the cats in separate areas for as long as it takes to allow them the chance to become desensitized to the smells and sounds of the cats in the other area. When they all seem particularly relaxed with this process, begin to expose them to the sight of each other. A good way to accomplish this visual introduction is to bring the new cat(s) in a carrier to meet your cats and sniff each other through the carrier wire door. Place the carrier on the floor and allow them to meet this way several times a day for about an hour. Continue these meetings for several days or until they remain calm in each other's presence. If and when the cats are able to stay calm in each other's presence during these meetings, it is time to let the new cat out into the rest of the house for a few minutes. The length of the visits can be increased gradually each day. Depending on the personalities of the cats involved, this process may take a few days or a few months. If it appears that any fighting maybe be close to occurring while you are supervising, put the newcomer back in his/her room and proceed more slowly. If those supervised play times go well, you can begin to allow them to cohabitate in your home. If any aggressive behavior occurs at any time, begin the introduction process again. It is very important to understand that this process can take as little as a few days, to sometimes much longer. It is all dependent on the cats involved. If things don’t go well right away... One of the most important steps to dealing aggressive behavior between cats is to recognize the different types of aggression and understand their underlying causes. A short list and description of some commonly seen aggressive behaviors include: chasing; ambushing; hissing; swatting; and/or biting. If you see these behaviors, seek help from your veterinarian. Most cats get along fine if the introductory process is done correctly. Please seek help from your veterinarian if you feel that things are not progressing well, or if you have other questions.

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    Answered By Rodrigo Roca, DVM

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    Hello, sorry to hear about Nala. You may need to practice reintroduction procedures to accustom your cats to each other and decrease the inter-cat aggression you are experiencing. The following is a hand out on how to manage introducing a new cat and inter-cat aggression. Hope this helps. Introduction The new cat introduction process is extremely important in determining the success of having a multi-cat household. First impressions can be lasting impressions when it comes to cats. Cats’ territorial nature means that the time required for the introduction process varies greatly depending on the cats involved. Before bringing a new cat into your home, it is important to recognize that this will probably take a little bit of time and effort to make everything happen smoothly. With a little patience and commitment, your new cat could wind up being good friends with, or at the very least peacefully cohabitating with your current family cat. Introducing cats who are strangers to each other should be done in a gradual fashion. Owners should make sure to associate enjoyable things such as food, attention, or play with the other cat(s). Patience is extremely important in this process, and it is important to know that you may be required to repeat steps in the introduction process multiple times. Cats are naturally territorial in the wild, and will defend their home range and its associated resources, such as food, resting areas, and litter boxes from other cats. In the case of the house cat, this territorialism may manifest in your cat becoming apparently aggressive in an attempt to “defend” his place in the household, as well as his “home range”. While this can pose quite a challenge, with some time and commitment, most cats can learn to cope with the new housemate and put major aggression issues aside. A settling in period is generally recommended before introductions are made, since the initial stress of moving into your home can cause fear or aggressive behavior to begin with. Make sure to speak quietly and calmly to the cats and make no sudden moves. When the cats are tolerant of each other’s presence, give lots of positive reinforcement in the form of words, toys, and food. It is best not to scold or use harsh tones with the cats while they are in each other’s presence. This may cause them to associate unpleasantness with being near each other. Give special attention to the resident cat(s) to reassure them of your loyalty and love and help minimize jealousy. Give the new cat loving attention only during the resident cat's absence until such time as they become true friends. In addition, it is recommended that you temporarily assign the new cat its own room (preferably one that is not heavily trafficked). The door to this room should be kept closed, and the room should contain a litter box, dry food and water, as well as comforting objects such as a scratching post, comfortable bed, and cat toys. It is also smart to leave the cat’s carrier open on the floor so the cat can retreat there if he/she feels threatened. The Step by Step Process Put other cats away before you bring the new cat home, so that you can take the cat to its room without encountering the other cat(s). Then close the door securely and go visit your other cats. They will smell the new cat on you. Give them treats to positively reinforce this experience. A few days later, in order to further acclimate the cats with each other’s scent, it is good to exchange the new cat's bedding with that of the resident cat.

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    Answered By Dr. Dayna, DVM, CVA

    Veterinarian, Certified Veterinary Acupuncturist

    Published on October 19th, 2017

    Introducing cats can be challenging and can take weeks to months. Sometimes they will never get along. The slower you go to the more likely they will be to get along. Keep new Kitten in a room until Onyx is having positive associations with Minnie under the door. Smelling and interested, playing under the door etc. Then move Minnie to into a living area in a large kennel. Have her there several hours a day where they can interact and investigate through the kennel. This may take weeks. Once that is going well you can try supervised free roaming time. Good luck and this will take time and patience.

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    Answered By Laura Johnson VMD

    Veterinarian

    Published on September 6th, 2017

    HI, thanks for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach! I recommend a slow introduction. I would keep the 2 new cats in a room together for 2 weeks that way if they get sick in that time frame your other cat won't get sick. Your cat can sniff them under the door and get used to hearing them cry. Then use a baby gate or put the new cats in a large dog crate or carrier. This allows the cats to safely sniff and hiss at each other with out anyone getting hurt. I would do this for 2 weeks. Then let the new cats out when you are home. If all goes well for 2 weeks then allow them out together all the time. Use feliway diffusers in the room you are isolating the new cats and where your cats sleeps most of the time. Hopefully they will tolerate each other with this 6 week plan. I hope this helps! Good luck!

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