Why am I so devastated after my cat died from cancer? Is it normal?

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On Wednesday I had to say goodbye to my cat. Her cancer had returned. She was bleeding again. The vet confirmed this via examination. Her gums were pale. It was an aggressive cancer. The vet said she'd end up in pain in a few weeks. Why do I feel so devastated? My heart aches. Is this normal? I wet the bed and cry a lot.

Dr. Melanie, BVSc MS · Accepted Answer

First off, I'm so sorry you lost your cat to cancer! It is so hard to say goodbye, even if it's the best thing for them. It is normal that you feel so devastated. Cats are members of the family, they can be like children for people, and to lose them truly leaves a hole in your heart. Try to remember that you have given her a gift by putting her to sleep. You let her go peacefully without any further pain or suffering, which was the greatest thing you could give her. It will take time for the pain to ease, and while it will never fully go away, it will get easier. Be kind to yourself, look after yourself, and allow yourself to grieve. Time will help things get better for you. Hang in there.

Why am I so devastated after my cat died from cancer? Is it normal?

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