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My cat is shy and mean to strangers. How can I help her adjust?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Mixed Breed | Female | spayed | 2 years and 7 months old | 9.5 lbs

My cat only trusts me my dad and my older brother since we got her as a kitten but is mean to everyone how can I fix this problem?

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Answered By Lindsey Edwards MVB, BSc, IVCA

Veterinarian

Published on November 26th, 2016

At this age it may be very difficult to change her pattern of behavior, she is obviously a very shy and anxious cat. Natural calming supplements or royal canin calm food can have very dramatic results and would be worth trying, as would a pheromone diffuser but it is unlikely she will become overtly friendly to strangers at this stage

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