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Puppy won't eat/potty when I leave. How to manage separation anxiety?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Shih Tzu | Male | neutered | 7 months and 18 days old | 5.2 lbs

Every time I go to work my puppy refuses to eat or use the bathroom. My other family members try to engage him, but he refuses to move from the front door because he sits there waiting for me. I don't know if it's because I got him much earlier than the recommended 5 week time. But he is extremely attracted to me. I have tried a professional trainer and medication, but nothing seems to be working. Will this behavior of his affect him in the long run? Please help me!!

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Answered By Dr. Davis

Veterinarian

Published on August 26th, 2017

Hopefully he will be less insecure as he grows up. I would not feed him breakfast on the days you go to work, and make sure he has gone outside to the bathroom and had some exercise before you leave. Have him stay in another area of the house away from the door, and have other family members try to give him his food or treats after you've gone. If he has a special treat or toy only let him have it when you are at work and leave his crate open so he can rest in a familiar place when he's anxious. If he will walk with a family member have them take him out during the day. When you come home ignore him for five minutes or so even if he's going crazy, then calmly take him out without petting him or talking to him. If you make too much of leaving and returning you are reinforcing this behavior. Continue with the trainer in another month or two as he may learn better when he is more mature. Thanks for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach to help you care for Papi.

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