Updated On September 23rd, 2025
Pet's info: Cat | Mixed Breed | Female | spayed
I'm 17 and plan on leaving my family home sometime in the next 2 years, we have 3 cats, 2 dogs, and 1 fish. One of the cats and I have a very strong bond, she is always at my side and, I love her more than words can describe. I'm planning on taking her when I move out, it would only be the two of us for awhile but I also plan to get more pets in the future. She is friends with my other 2 cats and my family, my question is will she be happy if I take her, or leave her with my family?
1 Answer
Published on August 25th, 2017
If Penelope is bonded with you she will likely be fine, but there are a few things you can do that might help make the move easier. Look into Feliway products and start using before the move and at new house. A vet checkup before a major change is never a bad idea since stress can exacerbate underlying illness. Keep food and litter the same as what she's accustomed to using if you make any changes don't do it right away with the move and make sure to change things slowly and gradually over the course of a week or two. Possibly get her some toys or beds now that you will take with you when you move so she has a familiar scent. And make sure that you're being realistic about when and where you're moving, if it will be a good move for Penelope. The fact that you're thinking about it this far in advance means you do have her best interest in mind. But many times pets are abandoned by college age students who don't understand the responsibility of taking care of them; so make sure you're doing what's best for her and hopefully you would be able to visit if you do leave her at home. Good luck with your decision and thank you for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach.
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