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My cat is afraid of us. How can I get him to bond with our family?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Domestic Mediumhair | Male | unneutered

How do I make my cat like me. He seems to be afraid of us, even though we had him since he was born. Nothing is working. I tried playing with him, I tried feeding him cat treats out of my hand, he ate, but still doesn't like me or anyone in my family. I'd be very pleased if you would help.

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Answered By Isabelle Roese, DVM, CVA

Veterinarian, Certified Veterinary Acupuncturist

Published on August 11th, 2017

I would suggest neutering him. It may not solve the issue fully but may make him less prone to want to wander off. The other tip is time. Be patient, he may get more cozy in time. Consider adding another cat to the mix. I have had a similar situation with a cat in the past and it did help to add a playmate.. thank you for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach. Good luck! With Tutiki.

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