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My cat is aggressive and anxious around guests. What should I do?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Domestic Shorthair | Male | neutered | 8 years old

I've had a cat for around 9 years that is perfectly fine around me, but is extremely anxious and aggressive (hissing, scratching, running away) with anyone that comes into my apartment. It's been getting progressively worse over the years, from bareable to a point that I don't want to invite anyone over. I've tried all of the anti-anxiety remedies I've seen online, including the diffusers, etc. But nothing seems to work. He's had medical checkups in the past but all fine. Not sure what to do.

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Answered By Dr. Melanie, BVSc MS

Veterinarian

Published on July 8th, 2017

This is a very tough problem for you to have! I would have Toby seen by a vet, as there are prescription medications that can help a cat with anxiety. It sounds like you have tried all you can at home, and now it's time to look into using prescription drugs to see if that helps him. These medications could include prozac and zoloft. It would be up to your vet to determine if medication is appropriate for Toby, and what medication would be safest to use. I would make an appointment to have him seen on Monday. I hope this helps!

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