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My dog hates being held. How can I teach them to enjoy cuddling?

Updated On September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Pomeranian | Male | 1 month and 13 days old

When I hold my pet it is not with me it want to get down I do not know why ?? I want to hold my pet for long time how ?.

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Answered By Jessica Keay, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on June 7th, 2017

Not all dogs enjoy being held for extended periods of time, so I wouldn't force your puppy to sit on your lap or be held for long periods if he feels uncomfortable. You may be able to increase his willingness to sit on your lap or be held by rewarding him with treats or food whenever he is being held, so he associates the situation with good rewards. Filling a toy kong with wet dog food and freezing it or putting peanut butter in it and then holding the kong for your dog to lick at/chew on while you hold him on your lap may help encourage him to get used to being held by you. Slowly increase the amount of time you keep him on your lap/in your arms and be patient!

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