My dog is obese, but owner won't allow diet or exercise. What to do?

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(Repost) My grandmother has a begal mix that is morbidly obese. Its a very small dog, but its about 40 lbs. I'm not allowed to mention anything to her about her dogs weight, because her feelings will get hurt and she'll argue with me (She is 81 and showing signs of dementia). What should I do for the dog, and my grandmother's best interest? She wont allow me to take the dog for walks, because she's afraid and she constantly has bowls of treats laying all around her house for the dog's convinence. Pet's info: Dog | Beagle | Male | neutered | 40 lbs

Dr. Melanie, BVSc MS · Accepted Answer

Wow, you are in a tough situation! It does sound like Diamond is extremely overweight, and that is not healthy for him at all. This can predispose him to joint problems, cardiac disease, and diabetes. He does have to lose weight. I'm wondering if you can get your grandmother to take him to the vet (and you go along with her). The vet will definitely let her know that Diamond is overweight, and she might be more receptive to hearing that from a vet as opposed to a family member. The bowls of treats have to go, that's just making the problem worse. Maybe you can phrase to your grandmother that you are worried she will trip over the bowls and that's why they should be put up. He also does need to go on walks, and maybe with a vet's help, you can convince her to allow you to take him on walks. I'm sure he is a beloved companion to your grandmother, and maybe if you and the vet point out that this excessive weight can cut short his life span, having that knowledge may make her open to getting him to lose weight so he lives longer. I hope this helps, good luck!

My dog is obese, but owner won't allow diet or exercise. What to do?

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